Is this some kind of joke? A way of building sexual tension until neither of us can stand it another second? Do you think it’s fun to tease me this way? Because I’ll tell you, it’s not much fun on my end. Actually, it is, but we could be having so much more fun than this.
I want so badly to know you, to learn more than just the snippets that any old social media detective could dig up. I want to know what gets you out of bed every morning, what scares you, what your guilty pleasures are. I want to know your touch and your taste and the ways your body falls into another. I want to know it all. I want this to unfold already.
I know that I don’t make it easy. I’m shy and nervous and hard to catch off-guard, and none of those things make it easy to just drop me a line. But I swear to you, I am interested. I want you worse than you could ever tell by looking at me. So, please, for the sake of us both, try it. Just once, try your luck with me. I can guarantee a success rate of 100%. There’s so much more to me than a cold expression and snarky jokes, and you’re a magnet for it all. My heart is beating down its walls to reach you.
The waiting could kill me, you know, so let’s make a deal. If you can be brave for me one time, I’ll do everything in my power to make it easier on you. I’ll smile and I won’t bother turning away when I blush red. I’ll linger and make small talk even though I’m terrible at it. I swear to you, I’ll try. Just take a chance on me before fate slips on by.
Sometimes I wake up all out of hope. There are sleepless nights that exhaust me to the point that I would sooner implode than do it all over again tomorrow. It’s hard to exist sometimes. Not just for me, but everyone. Sometimes we need a break.
The only thing I regret about you is the state you met me in. If I could’ve had it my way, our strings would have tangled sometime back in June or maybe August. You wouldn’t have known my defeat before knowing my name. You would have been met with a smile and untainted joy for tomorrow, for the chance of meeting once more.
But it was mid-October, not June or August. You stumbled into the picture on a particularly cold and dreary morning, one when I had so struggled just to roll out of bed. I was too tired to smile hello, too caught up in everything else to acknowledge all the magic before me. But you were better, and you shone with hope. It warmed me tremendously, and I suppose should have told you that. I wish I had. I should have thanked you for being a light.
November has come around now and I’m better. I sleep well more times than I don’t, and I break into a massive smile at the thought of you. There’s hope. Hope for one more encounter, hope for a chance to start again, hope for this to become something. Perhaps it’s foolish – this dependency I’ve nurtured on a caring, kind almost-stranger – but it helps. And that’s the bottom line.
It’s not that you broke your promise…just that it was nonspecific. When you swore you’d be back, that you’d still stick around for me, you didn’t tack on a day or time. And how could you? Where our paths split, life was looking pretty crazy. It would have been silly to think we could know ahead of time when we’d most need one another. Apparently we don’t yet, and I’m glad to know you must be doing okay. So don’t mistake this note as a bitter jumble of hard feelings. I’m not angry. You said you’d be back and you will. Continue reading “Still Is”
Yes, what you heard is true. I talk to myself. I, being me, enjoy having make-believe conversations with myself, being you.
We talk about everything under the sun. We’ve been lovers and friends and strangers all over again. I’m hoping to decide what we might be when it’s all said and done.
The others don’t get it, and sometimes they lash out. We’ve tried pretending they’re jealous, but I’m not sure that’s really what this is about.
In my head, we were perfect. A mismatch only due to time. A decade of difference and no doubt, you’d have been mine.
In my head, it’d be worth it – all the whispers and stares. You always did like to tell me how we made such a notable pair.
In my head, you’re coming back. You can’t stand this being away. You’ll show up on my doorstep saying what I couldn’t say.
In my head, we could swing it. I’ve got nothing to lose. But that’s easy to say when it’s just me here speaking for you.
So I talk to myself, trying to wade through this rubble. What is this mess? It wasn’t love and I never fell but I guess I did sort of stumble.
I guess I just wanted answers, and I wasn’t sure if you’d find a way. I thought that if I could rehearse it alone, we’d end up being in agreement like always.
So is what I’ve heard true? Do you still kick yourself for it, wish you’d stopped to reassess the regret? Because I sure as hell do.
I’m so excited to meet you, and something tells me it’s happening sooner than later now. It’s like there’s a tension in the air of paths about to cross, and it’s electrifying and frustrating and nerve-wracking but it’s amazing. I’m in a constant state of see-you-soon, of always being ready, being eager to open the door to you. It’s a new feeling. I tend to be bad at opening up and letting people in, but once in a while, I just know. Sometimes there are strangers who belong.
And that’s what you seem to be. Somehow we haven’t had to meet for me to realize that you’ve got a way about you that I am bound to adore. It’s never crossed my mind to doubt your genuine spirit or so much as wonder if you’ve got a good heart. Because of course you do – you’re you. I’ve been hoping for someone to walk into my life and offer a steady hand as I heal, and surely no God we know would send in another man with lousy grip and wandering eyes. Call me crazy for it but you could be damn near everything I need, and maybe I’m something you need, too.
Time will tell, I suppose, whether or not fate is on our side. Maybe I’ll catch you before a bar gig a state or two over and you’ll decide to sing a song for me, or perhaps I’ll bump into you in a holiday crowd at a busy outdoor shopping mall and sparks will fly with the snowflakes. Maybe we’ll get coffee even though I don’t drink coffee, or maybe we’ll find a quiet place to just talk until we run out of daylight. There are billions upon billions of ways this could all play out, and I’m just praying for one.
It tastes like a staleness in once-electrified space, and reminds me of the night I wasn’t able to kiss you goodbye. I sit around in this room and see all of these pieces – proof that you were here, that you made an impact, that people loved you. I sit here and I wonder if you miss this, if you miss us.
Usually, I decide the answer is no. You’re probably too busy to wonder about me; you likely are still adjusting to being so happy and carefree with your new situation. I wonder if I cross your mind, but I’m afraid to wonder in what capacity. Maybe deep down you were relieved to have a reason to get away. Or maybe, just maybe, you were relieved to find an out and save your heart before things between us got to be too much. I know it’s not likely.
Still, I catch myself smiling, pretending you miss it all as much as do. Hoping that you’ll make your way back to me so we can remember it all together. It hurts to swing from these could-have-been highs to wasted time lows, but hey…. it hurts to only know the lows, too.
I wish you would come see me or give me a call or just answer a text. You promised you would, you know. Make good on that, prove to me that you’re as wonderful as I’ve painted you to be in my memory. Do you remember when you offered me your support and swore you’d be there for me no matter what? Because I’ve been needing you, and it feels like you forgot to be there. So as often as I yearn for your companionship, I keep to myself because I hate it when you answer me with unscathed silence. What could I have done to deserve that?
I guess the staleness is just a part of feeling forgotten, of loving a time or a person that’s gone its own way. It leaves a terrible taste in my mouth, and while I know you’ll never come to kiss it away, maybe you could still swing by and work your magic. You always did know just what to say.
We deserve each other. I know that we both tend to paint ourselves unworthy, but we’re a hell of a match. Surely you can see that. There was some kind of magic in the stars that allowed us to meet, and damn it all if we let it go to waste now.
I keep hearing that patience is a virtue, and my god have I been patient. To spend all this time waiting can be nothing less than love, like it or not. Let’s be honest with ourselves – you’re a piece of me now. I can only speak for myself, but I know that a part of my heart will always belong to you. No matter what. There aren’t many things that I can mark as unconditional, but what I feel for you is one of them.
Whether you love me or not doesn’t change what fate has planned for us. Could you imagine bouncing back from this heartbreak and finding a way to be the best of friends? To still be the first one that I turn to in the best and worst of times?
Even if we never speak again, even if you are forevermore burned into me as a memory, we still have more to tell. I wholeheartedly believe that there’s at least a glimmer of happiness still to play into our story. There will always be a positive spin – we just have to find it. And I say we because I wish you would look for it, too. I can’t go on thinking that you regret everything about me, just like I can’t let you believe that you don’t deserve to be adored.
At the end of the day, though, nothing changes. I did everything right and I still lost you.